The best dildos, according to sex educators, therapists, and “Glamour” sex-toy writers, including lifelike silicone dildos, double-ended dildos, and strap-ons.

How we chose dildos

AccordionItemContainerButtonLargeChevronWe compiled a list of dildos made of a variety of materials and in different sizes to test. Each came highly recommended from sex experts and many were tested by Glamour writers and readers. We evaluated these options on the following important criteria, then selected top picks from there.

• Size: Particularly the insertable length and circumference of the toy; beginners will want to choose a dildo that’s on the smaller, narrower side
• Design: If the dildo was extremely lifelike, more whimsical, or looked nothing like a penis—which many people might want; if the dildo was compatible in a strap-on harness; was it curved enough to hit the G-spot and P-spot?
• Material: Not all material—like glass—is harness-compatible or safe to use with all types of lube
• Performance: If it had suction, was it strong enough?
• Value: For the price, how high-quality was the dildo, and did it include any additional accessories like a harness?

What to consider when picking a dildo

AccordionItemContainerButtonLargeChevronFigure out how you want to use it. If you’re a beginner, you’re going to want to start with a small, slimmer option. Want to try anal? Make sure your dildo has a flared base so it doesn’t get stuck in your butt. (Don’t worry, we note which ones are anal-safe below.) Want some hands-free fun? Opt for a toy with a strong suction cup, says David Khalili, LMFT, a sex and relationship therapist.

Take into account its size and length. “Think about any penetration experiences that have been pleasurable—or for that matter, too much or not enough—and do your best to guesstimate the size of the fingers, object, penis, or whatever it was that you know you liked or know you didn’t,” Carol Queen, PhD, staff expert at online sex-toy store Good Vibrations, says. While your impulse might just be to buy a larger toy, there’s a chance it won’t feel great unless you know that bigger really does feel better for your body—as in, you’ve enjoyed sex with a partner with a bigger penis.

Consider its material. Silicone is the most popular for its soft, skin-like feel. Notably, silicone dildos should only be used with water-based lube, since silicone-based and oil-based options might actually cause the toy to break apart. Other popular materials include: borosilicate glass; hypoallergenic metal (like stainless-steel and titanium); and acrylonitrile butadiene styrene (ABS) plastic, which is more rigid than silicone. All of these are great for experiments with different sensations. They can also be used with any personal lubricant you like and are easy to clean.

Think about its design and shape. Some dildos are so lifelike; others are colorful, rippled, or even decorated with confetti; and others look more like modern art. Decide which feels most like a turn-on to you. Consider its shape, as well, since some come with curved shafts or heads to make it easier to find and massage the P-spot and G-spot.

How to use a dildo

AccordionItemContainerButtonLargeChevronLube up! No matter where you’ll be putting your toy, lubricant cuts down on friction and makes for better play, Dr. Queen says. (Don’t know where to start? Peep our list of best lubes.) Again, if you’re using a silicone toy, which is likely, stick to water-based lubricants to keep your toys from falling apart.

Start slow—and small. Anal toys like plugs, beads, and dildos on the slimmer, shorter side are perfect for adjusting your anus to having something inside of it. Grasp the anus in your hand near the base if you want to insert just a little bit at a time, moving in long, slow strokes before you get going.

Use that suction cup (or harness). Stick the toy’s suction base against a smooth, flat surface (like a shower wall) so you can access it on your own (and again, lube is your friend). You can also attach any harness-compatible dildo into a strap-on to try out pegging with a partner.

Add other forms of stimulation. To make it easier to orgasm, Dr. Queen says, you can mix in stimulation with other vibrators, suction toys, or your fingers—especially if you’re using a suction-cup dildo, which leaves both hands free to explore your erogenous zones.

How to clean a dildo

AccordionItemContainerButtonLargeChevronSilicone, glass, and metal are the easiest to clean because they’re nonporous, Dr. Queen says, meaning they’re less likely to trap moisture or bacteria after use. You can usually achieve this by washing them with warm water and mild, antibacterial soap, then drying them with a soft, lint-free cloth. To disinfect a nonporous toy that doesn’t have any sort of motor, you can usually boil it for 10 minutes. Many dildos can be cleaned in the dishwasher as well, but make sure you check the instructions before tossing them in.

Meet the experts

AccordionItemContainerButtonLargeChevron- Carol Queen, PhD, staff expert at online sex-toy shop Good Vibes

• Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, AASECT-certified sex therapist
• David Khalili, LMFT, a sex and relationship therapist
• Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, a sex educator and expert at online sex-toy retailer Lovehoney
• Heather Shannon, LCPC, a certified sex therapist and host of the podcast Ask a Sex Therapist
• Megan Fleming, PhD, a sex and relationship therapist
• Megan Harrison, LMFT, a licensed relationship therapist
• Nat DiFrank, MEd, a gender and sexuality educator with a masters of education in human sexuality
• Katherin Winnick, sex coach
• Amanda Chatel, a Glamour sex writer who has tested over a thousand toys
• Suzannah Weiss, MA, MPS, a certified sex educator, Glamour toy tester, and author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject

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Unbound Pogo

$37Amazon

$37Unbound

• Why we love it: Short and slim enough for beginners; great for backdoor-play; affordable; discreet; slightly curved and flexible; harness-compatible; dishwasher-safe
• What’s worth considering: Cannot be used with oil- or silicone-based lubes; does not have strong suction
• Try if: You want a basic, affordable, medium-size dildo that’s curved to hit the G-spot

Two sex experts we spoke to praised the Pogo suction-cup dildo as a “non-intimidating choice for people who are newer to sex toys,” as Heather Shannon, LCPC, a certified sex therapist and host of the podcast Ask a Sex Therapist, puts it. “It’s a medium-size silicone suction dildo that’s large enough for vaginal penetration and small enough for anal,” she says. The Pogo is harness-compatible and has a shape that’s curved perfectly, making it a G-spot dildo just as much as a P-spot dildo. Its slim, nonrealistic size and colors make it especially accessible for first-timers who are turned off by the more lifelike models, sex coach Katherin Winnick previously told Glamour.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 6.5 in. | Insertable length: 6 in. | Circumference: 4 in. | Width: 1.5 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: Mild | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Blush Novelties Neo Elite Glow in The Dark Silicone Cock (7.5 inch)

$34Amazon

$48Babeland

• Why we love it: Girthy; dual-density for realistic feel; glows in the dark
• What’s worth considering: It may feel too wide for some
• Try if: Prefer the feeling of a realistic penis (not just the looks)

“Dual-density dildos are a great option for those who might find a typical dildo too hard and stiff, since they are bendable and squeezable,” says Nat DiFrank, MEd, a gender and sexuality educator. The Neo Elite has a rigid interior and a soft, squishy exterior that feels more like the real thing than, say, metal. “It’s a bit longer than average and has a semi-prominent head and a bit of girth for vaginal penetration, so you can really enjoy the feeling of insertion, if you’re into that,” says Shannon. The dildo has a strong suction base and glows in the dark—fun, yes, but also practical for when you dim the lights.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 7.5 in. | Insertable length: 7 in. | Diameter: 1.5 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: Yes | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Lovehoney Slimline Silicone Suction Cup Dildo (5 inch)

$20Lovehoney

• Why we love it: Strong suction; very affordable
• What’s worth considering:
• Try if: You want to use a dildo for masturbation (you can stick it to a hard, flat surface) or during shower sex

This silicone dildo is notable for the strength of its suction (which cannot be said for all dildos—and let me tell you, nothing ruins fun like your dildo popping off the shower wall just as you’re getting going). “When purchasing a suction dildo, you want to make sure that it will stay in place,” says Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, a sex educator and expert at online sex-toy retailer Lovehoney “This is one of my top recommendations for a suction dildo because I have personally put it through the ringer, and it hasn’t budged.” The curved body of the dildo is flexible enough to tease the G-spot or P-spot, and it’s only $20—the cheapest price on our list.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 5 in. | Insertable length: 5 in. | Circumference: 3 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: Yes | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Lovehoney Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo (8-inch)

$35$25Lovehoney

• Why we love it: Strong suction base; harness-compatible; affordable; girthy
• What’s worth considering: It’s highly realistic, which can be a turn-off to some; never use with an oil-based lube; it’s length may not be short enough for beginners
• Try if: You’re in the market for a lifelike dildo (that’s harness-safe and has a suction cup)

This realistic dildo is probably exactly what you picture when you hear the word dildo. It’s intensely lifelike (down to the skin-tone options), with a pronounced ridge on its tip for G-spot and P-spot stimulation. It has a suction-cup base that allows it to stick to mirrors, headboards, and shower walls for hands-free masturbation. It’s five inches in insertable length (the average length for most dildos) and harness-compatible, should you and your partner want to try strapping or pegging. And best of all, it’s under $30.

Material: PVC plastic | Length: 8 in. | Insertable length: 6.5 in. | Circumference: 5 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: Strong | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Sportsheets Jinx Dildo (6-inch)

$50Amazon

$55$47Good Vibes

• Why we love it: Beginner-friendly; curved body to hit G-spot and P-spot
• What’s worth considering: Not compatible with silicone-based lube
• Try if: You’re new to using dildos and want to get started with an affordable, not-too-big option that gets you adjusted to the sensation

This silicone anal dildo is a great pick for exploring prostate play, says Dr. Queen. The Sportsheets line makes a variety of sizes so beginners can adjust to the anal sensation before working their way up. The Jinx is its smallest size (five inches in insertable length), and its firm, cupped base solidly suctions for hands-free use. It’s harness-compatible with most O-rings and has a flexible, curved body.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 6 in. | Insertable length: 5 in. | Circumference: 1.5 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: Mild | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Strap-On-Me Multi-Orgasm Strap-On Dildo (Large)

$181Amazon

$170Babeland

• Why we love it: Provides G-spot and clitoral stimulation; multiple vibration modes; can be worn without a harness; remote-controllable; available in three sizes
• What’s worth considering: Expensive; not very flexible; takes some getting used to wearing
• Try if: You want the experience of triple stimulation (vaginal, clitoral, and anal)

A strapless strap-on is held in place by its wearer’s vaginal muscles, providing hands-free penetration without relying on a harness. This one has three motors that power an arm that massages the G-spot, the toy’s clit-sucking center, and the phallic external arm. “The dildo is adjustable/bendable, designed for strap-on use with the dildo on one side and an egg shape on the other (which works better for dual stimulation than a larger dildo shape on the thruster’s side),” says Indigo Stray Conger, LMFT, an AASECT-certified sex therapist. Because it provides internal sensation to both the wearer and the receiver, this G-spot dildo is an especially popular sex toy for couples without penises.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 9.84 in. | Insertable length: 6.18 in. | Diameter: 1.65 in. | Waterproof: No | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes | Battery: Rechargeable (run time of 70 minutes)

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Njoy Pure Wand

$120Amazon

$150Lovehoney

$120Babeland

• Why we love it: Curved to hit G-spot and prostate; weighted ends for fullness; easy to clean; can be heated and chilled
• What’s worth considering: Isn’t harness-compatible
• Try if: You want to experiment with temperature play

This sleek toy is versatile—it’s a dildo, yes, but can be used for P-spot and G-spot stimulation too. Made of medical-grade stainless steel, each end of the wand has a differently weighted ball that can provide a sensation of firmness and fullness that feels great to some. Its curved body is designed to more easily target those sensitive spots. Megan Fleming, PhD, a sex and relationship therapist, recommends trying both thrusting and rocking motions with it. You can use any type of lube with the toy (unlike with silicone dildos, which should not be paired with silicone-based lube), and it holds both heat and cold if you want to experiment with temperature play.

Material: Stainless steel | Insertable length: 8 in. | Diameter: 1.5 in. and 1 in. at each end | Weight: 1.51 lbs. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: No

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Tantus Ripple Large

$36Amazon

$42Tantus

• Why we love it: Good choice for playing with size; provides unique feeling of fullness; harness-compatible; comes in three sizes
• What’s worth considering: Doesn’t have suction
• Try if: You want to play around with anal sensation

The harness-compatible Tantus Ripple is a cross between a dildo and a chain of anal beads, which provide a sense of fullness and pressure combined with an in-and-out movement. “This one is cool and unique because you can put in one ‘ball’ or all of them, and it can allow you to work up to larger anal insertions gradually at your own pace,” says Shannon. It’s an excellent toy to use if you want to train yourself anally to accept fuller girths.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Insertable length: 6.85 in. | Diameter: Beads start at 0.78 in. in diameter and build to 1.5 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes

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Lovehoney Double Duty Vibrating Strap-On Dildo

$70Lovehoney

• Why we love it: Can provide penetration for two people; includes harness (adjustable up to 65 inches); remote-controllable; curved shaft
• What’s worth considering: Not rechargeable; not waterproof
• Try if: You and your partner want to experience penetration at the same time

Two people can use this double-sided dildo with a strap-on harness—and they both get penetration out of the experience. “The person wearing the strap-on typically has a vulva. The larger side is for penetration into their partner, while the other end is inserted into the thruster’s vaginal canal,” says Conger. The Double Duty is ideal for both vaginal and anal sex, and it has the added benefit of three vibration modes and seven patterns to experiment with (as well as a remote control) on both ends. It’s basically the sex machine you never knew you needed.

Material: Body-safe silicone | Length: 12 in. | Insertable length: 7 in. | Circumference: 4.5 in. | Waterproof: Splash-proof | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes (included) | Battery: 2 AAA batteries

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Pipedream Icicles No 62

$34Amazon

• Why we love it: Easy to clean; safe with silicone-based lube; can be used for temperature play; smooth sensation
• What’s worth considering: Cannot be used in a harness; no suction; rigid design isn’t for everyone
• Try if: You’re sensitive to materials like silicone or want to experiment with temperature play

“Glass dildos look beautiful and feel amazing when used for insertion,” says Dr. Queen. “Already smooth and slick, add a little lubricant and they become great and versatile toys.” They’re easy to wash because they’re nonporous, are hypoallergenic, and work with any tube of lube. Experiment with temperature play by popping this dildo into the freezer or running it under warm water first. “This dildo is the perfect shape and size to curve into the G-spot or P-spot and offers a delicious rigidity,” says Megan Harrison, LMFT, a licensed relationship therapist.

Material: Borosilicate glass | Length: 7.5 inches | Insertable length: 6.5 inches | Diamater: 1.25 inches| Waterproof: Yes | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes | Harness-compatible: Yes |

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Lovehoney Beginner’s Strap-On Harness Kit

$45Lovehoney

• Why we love it: Includes dildo and three O-rings so you can try other sized dildos; harness is adjustable for different-sized bodies; affordable
• What’s worth considering: Straps are finicky and may dig into the skin
• Try if: You”re looking for a starter strap-on harness kit that supplies you with the basics (including a dildo) and that you can later use to swap in other dildos

We suggest picking up this beginner’s strap-on harness kit because it’s budget-friendly and it provides many useful accessories: an adjustable harness, a dildo (in an approachable insertable five-inch length for first-timers), and three O-rings that let you swap your own models in when you’re ready to graduate to new lengths. “I love this set not just because it’s comfortable and easy to use, but because it’s not overwhelming when you put it on,” says Chatel. “As someone who prefers vibes with my dildos, I’ve also found that putting a vibrating cock ring at the base against the O-ring provides the ideal amount of clitoral stimulation, adding an extra thrill for both partners.”

Material: Body-safe soft silicone | Length: 5 in. (dildo) | Insertable length: 4.5 in. (dildo) | Circumference: 3 in. (dildo) | Harness size: 68 in. | Waterproof: Yes | Suction: No | Anal-safe: Yes

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