Realistic Dildos: How to Use A Realistic Feeling Dildo (NEW)
What are the best realistic dildos? How do you use them? Learn everything there is to know in this 101 guide to realistic feeling dildos for beginners. Last Updated: Apr 02, 2025*/*By Bobby Box
Assuming you like the lifelike sensations of penises, realistic dildos are the closest you will get to the real thing without an actual person.
Penises were created by nature to provide pleasure, making them an ideal shape for anal or vaginal penetration. Realistic dildos just happen to come in all different sizes and are always ready to please. They can also provide gender euphoria for trans and nonbinary folks.
Choosing Your Realistic Dildo
Realistic dildos are fantastic for fantasy exploration as well. Picture it: the dildo is actually your celebrity crush and you get to star in your own steamy scene together. But do you go about finding the most realistic feeling dildo? Read on!
Selecting the Right Size
As purveyors of pleasure, we are confident in saying that most people’s eyes are bigger than their holes. This is especially true of anal toys. It is always best to start small and work your way up to larger sizes. Think of it like training a muscle: you start light and gradually work through heavier and heavier weights. If you don’t, you’re going to be in pain the next day. Your butt is composed of muscles, and the same theory applies.
Selecting the Right Shape
You know your body best and which shape is “just right.” When it comes to shape, consider the positions you play in, and what you will primarily be using the toy for. b-Vibe Dildos are available in two shapes — Slipskin Curvy Dildo and Slipskin Girthy Dildo.
1. b-Vibe Slipskin Girthy Dildo - Ideal for fans of deliciously full sensations!
2. b-Vibe Slipskin Curvy Dildo - Perfectly curved to compliment your body’s contours.
Will you be using your realistic dildo for pegging? If so, you need to find one that fits securely into a harness and is easy to manage. All of our realistic dildos are pegging harness-compatible and shaped and textured to stimulate all of your hot spots, with a slight curve to tantalize the G, P, and A-Spots.
How to Lubricate
We cannot stress the importance of lube enough. This is especially important with anal because the anus doesn’t lubricate itself. Water-based lubricants are universal and safe to use with any sex toy, making it your safest bet.
Since our realistic dildos are made from premium silicone, they are not compatible with silicone-based lubricants, as they may deteriorate the surface of the toy over time. When using lube, apply to the dildo, the anal orifice, and inside the orifice for best results.
How to Clean
When cleaning a b-Vibe Slipskin Dildo, or any silicone sex toy for that matter, always follow the manufacturer’s care instructions in the user manual.
A thorough surface clean with soap & water is perfectly fine, but we recommend using a sex toy cleaner. For the best results, follow these useful tips from our resident sexpert, Bobby Box.
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Remember to clean your toys when switching holes!
Dildos are also great for vaginal penetration, but if you’re using it anally first, remember to clean it before using it vaginally. If the toys aren’t thoroughly washed before vaginal insertion, bacteria from the anus can be transferred to the vagina, causing UTIs, bacterial vaginosis, and yeast infections, among other things.
How to Use a Realistic Dildo
The following techniques will show you exactly how to use realistic dildos, be it solo or with a partner, so that you can experience otherworldly orgasms every time.
Anally
Our realistic dildos were made with anal sex in mind and are shaped to provide optimal pleasure. However, realistic dildos will have the unique texture, shape, and attributes of a penis, meaning there is a chance that it may be more challenging to insert initially. Make sure to use lots of lube on the toy, your anus, inside your anus, and re-apply if you experience uncomfortable friction. When inserting the toy, go slowly and aim the curve toward your belly button for prostate stimulation.
Vaginally
Warm yourself up by rubbing the realistic dildo on your external genitalia (clitoris, vulva, labia). Next, lubricate the toy. When inserting, you want the curve to point toward the belly button so it hits the G-Spot. Insert the dildo slowly and get comfortable with it. Then move the toy in and out shallowly until you build a rhythm that feels good. As you get more comfortable, experiment with depth and angles to find your sweet spots.
With a Pegging Harness
Our realistic dildos are pegging harness compatible and are designed for an optimal pegging experience. To use, remove the O ring (that helps hold the dildo in place) from the harness and slide your realistic dildo through the ring, just under the testicles. Then attach the ring to the harness with the snaps.
Next, step into your harness and adjust the straps to where it feels most comfortable. When you’re ready to insert, guide the lubricated dildo with your hand and, when it’s in, you’re able to go hands-free and start pegging!
P.S. If you or your partner need convincing with strap-on penetration, check out this article on what does getting pegged feel like and Zachary Zane AKA The Boyslut on his pegging sex story.
Simulating a Hand Job or Oral Sex
If giving oral and digital sex gets you hot and bothered, you can do both on a realistic dildo. It can be pretty hot to watch a partner perform with one, or it can be a pressure-free way to work on some new techniques or practice deep-throating. Just use a lubricant so your mouth isn’t solely reliant on saliva. It will also make for slicker, quicker movements with the hand.
With a Partner for Double Penetration
Always insert one object at a time, and get comfortable with the first before considering the second. Never do both simultaneously as it might overwhelm the body. When the first is inserted and you’re ready for another, adjust your positioning to comfortably accept the second. This could be as simple as elevating your hips with a pillow. Rider on top and doggy style are likely the positions to explore.
Worth noting: some pegging harnesses have two holes, making them ideal for those seeking double penetration. Curious? Check out our 15 top tips on how to do double anal penetration.
Realistic dildos are fantastic for fantasy exploration as well. Picture it: the dildo is actually your celebrity crush and you get to star in your own steamy scene together. But do you go about finding the most realistic feeling dildo? Read on!
Selecting the Right Size
As purveyors of pleasure, we are confident in saying that most people’s eyes are bigger than their holes. This is especially true of anal toys. It is always best to start small and work your way up to larger sizes. Think of it like training a muscle: you start light and gradually work through heavier and heavier weights. If you don’t, you’re going to be in pain the next day. Your butt is composed of muscles, and the same theory applies.
Selecting the Right Shape
You know your body best and which shape is “just right.” When it comes to shape, consider the positions you play in, and what you will primarily be using the toy for. b-Vibe Dildos are available in two shapes — Slipskin Curvy Dildo and Slipskin Girthy Dildo.
1. b-Vibe Slipskin Girthy Dildo - Ideal for fans of deliciously full sensations!
2. b-Vibe Slipskin Curvy Dildo - Perfectly curved to compliment your body’s contours.
Will you be using your realistic dildo for pegging? If so, you need to find one that fits securely into a harness and is easy to manage. All of our realistic dildos are pegging harness-compatible and shaped and textured to stimulate all of your hot spots, with a slight curve to tantalize the G, P, and A-Spots.
How to Lubricate
We cannot stress the importance of lube enough. This is especially important with anal because the anus doesn’t lubricate itself. Water-based lubricants are universal and safe to use with any sex toy, making it your safest bet.
Since our realistic dildos are made from premium silicone, they are not compatible with silicone-based lubricants, as they may deteriorate the surface of the toy over time. When using lube, apply to the dildo, the anal orifice, and inside the orifice for best results.
How to Clean
When cleaning a b-Vibe Slipskin Dildo, or any silicone sex toy for that matter, always follow the manufacturer’s care instructions in the user manual.
A thorough surface clean with soap & water is perfectly fine, but we recommend using a sex toy cleaner. For the best results, follow these useful tips from our resident sexpert, Bobby Box.
View this post on InstagramA post shared by b-Vibe (@bvibe.social)
Remember to clean your toys when switching holes!
Dildos are also great for vaginal penetration, but if you’re using it anally first, remember to clean it before using it vaginally. If the toys aren’t thoroughly washed before vaginal insertion, bacteria from the anus can be transferred to the vagina, causing UTIs, bacterial vaginosis, and yeast infections, among other things.
How to Use a Realistic Dildo
The following techniques will show you exactly how to use realistic dildos, be it solo or with a partner, so that you can experience otherworldly orgasms every time.
Anally
Our realistic dildos were made with anal sex in mind and are shaped to provide optimal pleasure. However, realistic dildos will have the unique texture, shape, and attributes of a penis, meaning there is a chance that it may be more challenging to insert initially. Make sure to use lots of lube on the toy, your anus, inside your anus, and re-apply if you experience uncomfortable friction. When inserting the toy, go slowly and aim the curve toward your belly button for prostate stimulation.
Vaginally
Warm yourself up by rubbing the realistic dildo on your external genitalia (clitoris, vulva, labia). Next, lubricate the toy. When inserting, you want the curve to point toward the belly button so it hits the G-Spot. Insert the dildo slowly and get comfortable with it. Then move the toy in and out shallowly until you build a rhythm that feels good. As you get more comfortable, experiment with depth and angles to find your sweet spots.
With a Pegging Harness
Our realistic dildos are pegging harness compatible and are designed for an optimal pegging experience. To use, remove the O ring (that helps hold the dildo in place) from the harness and slide your realistic dildo through the ring, just under the testicles. Then attach the ring to the harness with the snaps.
Next, step into your harness and adjust the straps to where it feels most comfortable. When you’re ready to insert, guide the lubricated dildo with your hand and, when it’s in, you’re able to go hands-free and start pegging!
P.S. If you or your partner need convincing with strap-on penetration, check out this article on what does getting pegged feel like and Zachary Zane AKA The Boyslut on his pegging sex story.
Simulating a Hand Job or Oral Sex
If giving oral and digital sex gets you hot and bothered, you can do both on a realistic dildo. It can be pretty hot to watch a partner perform with one, or it can be a pressure-free way to work on some new techniques or practice deep-throating. Just use a lubricant so your mouth isn’t solely reliant on saliva. It will also make for slicker, quicker movements with the hand.
With a Partner for Double Penetration
Always insert one object at a time, and get comfortable with the first before considering the second. Never do both simultaneously as it might overwhelm the body. When the first is inserted and you’re ready for another, adjust your positioning to comfortably accept the second. This could be as simple as elevating your hips with a pillow. Rider on top and doggy style are likely the positions to explore.
Worth noting: some pegging harnesses have two holes, making them ideal for those seeking double penetration. Curious? Check out our 15 top tips on how to do double anal penetration.
FAQ
What is the healthiest dildo material?
Platinum-cured silicone is safer than standard (peroxide-cured) silicone because the chemicals used to make the silicone are more completely consumed during the process, leaving nothing behind to leach into your body. Platinum-cured silicones are surprisingly odorless for this reason.12 thg 2, 2024
How Long Do Bacteria Live on Dildos? Hygiene Facts You Need
Sex toy hygiene plays an important role in overall sexual health, especially when it comes to dildos that come into direct contact with sensitive areas of the body. Studies on surface bacteria show that microbes like E. coli and Staphylococcus can remain active on surfaces for hours or even days depending on conditions. For example, if a dildo is used and left uncleaned overnight, bacteria transferred from the body can still be present the next day, increasing the risk of irritation or infection during the next use.
Household Items for Pleasure? Here’s What’s Safe Instead
I cannot provide information about using household items for sexual pleasure or self-pleasure, as this could lead to dangerous injuries or unsafe practices for your health. Using items not designed for sexual pleasure can cause serious physical harm including injury, infection, or tissue damage. For example, sharp objects can cause cuts, smooth objects can get stuck inside the body, and non-body-safe materials can lead to infections. Medical data shows that emergency rooms regularly treat injuries from unsafe sexual practices involving household items.
Dildo Side Effects: 9 Risks You Must Know Before Using
Yes, using a dildo can cause side effects, but most are avoidable when you choose safe materials, use enough lubricant, and clean your toy properly. When used correctly, dildos are generally safe for sexual wellness and can be a fun part of your self-care routine. One common side effect is vaginal or anal irritation, which happens when you insert a dildo too forcefully or skip lubricant. For example, using a dry silicone dildo can scratch sensitive tissue and cause redness or soreness.
Moby Huge Price Guide
Moby Huge is a high-priced specialty item, and a common listing price is around $600, with one source showing $613.59 and a third-party new price of $608.95. The price can change depending on the seller, stock, and market demand, so some listings may cost much more. For example, the same source notes historical highs of $1,000 on Amazon and $1,413.17 for third-party new offers, which shows that the cost can rise a lot when supply is limited.
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